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Hometown Hunk |
| 2009-05-21 |
by Kurt Malec
contributing writer, Bay Window
Thursday May 21, 2009
Brendan O’Hara is a 28 year-old, hunky, art-loving, graphic designer from Malden, Mass., not to mention a former cover boy for Out at Night, the monthly GLBT nightlife and entertainment magazine published by Bay Windows.
He’s also a finalist in "America’s Gay Bachelor 2009," an online contest currently being sponsored by gay matchmaking website MyPartner.com. We spoke with him about representing the Bay State with his buff bod, his dating do’s and don’ts, and of course, what he looks for in a partner of his own.
Listen up, bachelors.
How did you get involved with "America’s Gay Bachelor?"
I actually saw an ad on Facebook months ago. You know those ads that are on the right hand side of your screen? It said something like, "Are you gay? Are you single? You could be America’s next gay bachelor!" I thought, what the heck. So I uploaded some pics and answered some questions. Then I got an email saying that I was Mister Massachusetts! I totally forgot! [Laughs]
You have a hot body! How often do you work out and what’s your workout secret?
Oh gee, thanks! I work out four times a week and have been doing it for 11 years now. I think in general, the most important thing is learning your own body and what will affect your body. For me, I always eat two cans of tuna after each workout. I will be at the gym at 6:00 a.m. and then at 8:00 a.m. will be eating tuna at my desk, much to the chagrin of my coworkers! [Laughs] I also drink a whole Gatorade bottle every time I work out as well. Again, diet is half the battle. On a Sunday, I might cook two pounds of pasta and grill eight chicken breasts. I put them in containers and then that lasts me the whole week.
You must have a guilty pleasure...
Burger King - a double cheeseburger. Or maybe some type of Mexican, like a big burrito.
I see you have a tattoo? What is it of and is there a story behind it?
I have two. The black tribal one is my "I am an 18 year-old badass tattoo!" [Laughs] The other one is my family crest that I got in 2003.
According to your profile, you like "an older bear type." What is it about this kind of guy that turns you on?
I dunno, really... Everybody asks me if it has to do with experience or money. For me it’s none of that. It’s purely physical. Some people like strawberry ice cream or some vanilla - simple as that.
"Split the bill. I don’t like to be taken care of that way. I know a lot of younger guys want an older guy to take them out. I am a big boy and I can take care of myself! "What if some younger, cute and smooth guy approached you? Would you turn him away?
Yes. Probably I would be disinterested. But it’s still a package deal. Gotta have looks and personality.
What is your ideal first date? Dinner? Movies? Dancing?
Dinner, but not at a place like Club Cafe. Not at a place where it’s more of a bar setting. I am not into the club scene and really don’t drink much at all. As long as I am with someone I enjoy, I enjoy myself. One time I went on a date and we went horseback riding. I love spontaneity. I am spontaneous and it was so much fun that we were both out of our comfort zone. So I guess what it comes down to is a surprise. Something creative and definitely neutral territory. I don’t want to go to your favorite bar in your hometown!
Does he pay or you?
Split the bill. I don’t like to be taken care of that way. I know a lot of younger guys want an older guy to take them out. I am a big boy and I can take care of myself!
Do you kiss on the first date?
Absolutely, but only if the vibe is right.
Do you believe in love at first sight? Or do you grow to love someone more?
Speaking from experience, I have had two real relationships where "the L word," and I have never seen the show, was mentioned and I only came to love them after asking a lot of questions about each other and really getting to know one another.
No matter how hot the guy is, what is your deal breaker?
If the guy brags about his status or his money or material things we are done! Don’t show me how you lack maturity and have a lot of insecurity.
On the flipside, if his looks aren’t his greatest asset, what would make you want to stay around?
If the guy was nice. I know that’s broad and a generalization and a weak answer, but I think of myself as a friendly, honest and humble person and I like the same.
Now, why should we vote for you to be "America’s Gay Bachelor?"
No one should vote if they don’t want to! I am just excited to be in this. I only came out four years ago - [and] only have come out in Boston. So to be Mr. Massachusetts is so cool in and of itself. So if people wanna vote for me, they can. [Laughs]
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